Delay is bad, because one is staying in a safe zone too long and doing things only for tittytainment, but still some kinds of delays are good, I call it meaningful delay:
- Things meanless and unimportant
- In a specific negotiating period
- Tired and need the recovery of some energy
Some people can’t distinguish the difference between these two delays, what beyond is lacking the ability to distinguish things is really important
I have this problem as well, cannot distinguish importance because it doesn’t belong to my instinct, and building a safe zone is most time what I am doing and maybe good at, so I have to face it and alert my super-ego all the time about the most important things I need to focus on, and the best way to concrete it is a daily reflection
By the way, the safe zone is important, and this is what I am creating:
- English
- Saving
- Math
- All kinds of relationships